x86/IOMMU: don't restrict IRQ affinities to online CPUs
In line with "x86/IRQ: desc->affinity should strictly represent the
requested value" the internally used IRQ(s) also shouldn't be restricted
to online ones. Make set_desc_affinity() (set_msi_affinity() then does
by implication) cope with a NULL mask being passed (just like
assign_irq_vector() does), and have IOMMU code pass NULL instead of
&cpu_online_map (when, for VT-d, there's no NUMA node information
available).